Time Doesn't Heal

Time changes everything or time heals all wounds. But the reality, it was just what people said. Doing things change things. Not doing things left things exactly as they were. And if you just leave it alone, it is not going to clear itself up like some kind of magic. So take actions, don’t just sit and try to forget.

 

We can forget it if we are busy to do many things, but how long can you stay busy? Remember, when the memories strikes, it will be hurt and makes you miserable. Either you let yourself hurt again, or you stand up and fix it. You choose.

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Okay that was the post. But i will add some words. I truly believe that time doesn't heal any wounds. If u persist that it will heal but i guarantee that it will leave scar. Because nothing could heal completely. So it still count as not fully recovered, right?

If you really want to move on, you have to accept that wounds. You have to acknowledge it. Because only by that, you will find peace. I could talk about it because i passed that phase. I know, it will take time depend on how big the wound. But, do not give up because you will not know how close you are from the finish. Believe me. :)

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C. JoyBell C.

Tuesday, 12 August 2014

There is no such thing as a “broken family.” Family is family, and is not determined by marriage certificates, divorce papers, and adoption documents. Families are made in the heart. The only time family becomes null is when those ties in the heart are cut. If you cut those ties, those people are not your family. If you make those ties, those people are your family. And if you hate those ties, those people will still be your family because whatever you hate will always be with you.

Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.

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These are another random quotes. It is from a wise man, Mr. JoyBell.
I find it interesting as motivation. maybe you can learn few things here.
Or maybe not. Well it doesn't need that much time to read just to remind you.
Oh yeah, there are few posts left from my tumblr. Soon, i will write recent event.
Expect my next article my dear reader, and i am learning how to make it good.
Don't expect much but i will guarantee there will be improvements. :D

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